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Domestic Abuse

What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse is defined across Government as any incident of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of their gender or sexuality. This includes, but is not limited to, psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional abuse. Controlling and coercive behaviours are often at the core of domestic abuse.

Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependant by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.

Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assaults, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.

Children and young people may

The government definition of domestic abuse also includes so-called ‘honour’ based violence, female genital mutilation (FGM) and forced marriage. More information is available on the Harmful Practices page.

Understanding the impacts of domestic abuse

Experiencing domestic abuse is defined in legislation as harmful and abusive to children. Living with domestic abuse can profoundly disrupt a child’s environment, undermining their stability, and physical, mental and emotional health. This impact on the child is the result of the perpetrator’s decision to use abusive behaviours, and the tactics and impact of domestic abuse can interrupt the non-abusing parent/carer’s ability to provide care. As a result, the protection and empowerment of the non-abusing parent is fundamental to the protection of the children.

Because domestic abuse is driven by control, any changes may escalate the abuse and increase the risk faced by the non-abusing parent and child/ren. It is important, when intervening to protect a child, to consider how to best to undertake this safely in partnership with the non-abusing parent.

In cases involving domestic abuse it is essential that a DASH risk assessment for the non-abusing parent is undertaken alongside risk assessment frameworks for children.

Domestic Abuse Training

To find out more about available courses or to book a place, please see here

Getting help

Oxfordshire Domestic Abuse Services Helpline is the front door to specialist support in Oxfordshire. Contact the helpline on 0800 731 0055 (10am – 7pm, Monday to Friday). Agencies are encouraged to contact ODAS via rather than through the helpline.
In an emergency please dial 999.

Useful Links and Publications

The Oxfordshire Safeguarding Children Board has published a combined Serious Case Review and Domestic Homicide Review named ‘Child J’. The report and associated documents can be accessed on the case review page. The below document is a progress report on actions taken in Oxfordshire in response to the findings of this review. Child J – OSCB Progress Report